I originally posted this comment over at Jeromy’s page - but thought the discussion that is extending from it might take place better over here – please cut and paste DoubtingThomas…. 

If I thought salvation had anything to do with me, I would be lost Matt. I would be very uncertain. But, I believe that I can only love Him because He first loved me. I believe that He pursues All of His sheep, and that He will not lose any. I believe that, if He chose me before the foundations of the world – then I can stand firm in the fact that the Holy Spirit, who first opened my eyes to see – who awakened my heart out of spiritual darkness… that He would confirm within my soul that I was, in fact, looking at Christ in the flesh…It is only a faith rooted in His work that can make me confident – because the human, fleshy part of me knows that my rebellious soul would want nothing to do with Him, apart from what He opens my eyes to desire. It is a faith in God, and nothing else… does that make sense? “He who began a good work in you is faithful to complete it.””